Valentine’s Day for Couples
To my love bugs, hi, we welcome Valentine’s Day with open arms, an excuse to flush ourselves in abundance of love <3
Maybe this is your first Valentine’s together, or it’s your 10th, no matter which one it should still be as good as the last.
Now a day like today is not just about buying presents, sending flowers, fancy dinners, and xy&z. It is about the thought, and the spark that you share together.
Depending on the type of relationship that you are, and how you plan to spend the time together, you should go in with your whole heart. Let’s say you settle on a movie night. Spruce it up a bit, add a candle or two, build a fort, grab some snacks, make it an adventure. A simple movie night could be so much fun together by making the time to prep for it.
Preparing!
Preparing for Valentine’s Day may be stressful, we are rushing around the super market trying to find those gummy worms she loves, or the perfectly red roses that are still available. We often resort to gift giving on days like today. Love languages could come in so many different kinds of forms, so be sure to pay attention to what your partner responds to the most. Is it a hand written letter? Is it a song you wrote about them? Is it a fancy dinner followed by a paint night?
Learn and Know Your Love Languages
This is also a super humbling conversation to have over dinner, or wine. Express your favorite parts of your partner. The way they take up the whole bed, the way they pack you lunch before you leave, or even the way they kiss you after a long day. Understand the way your partner likes to receive love and affection. If you are someone who is in a long distance relationship, maybe this is the time to send some flowers, or a love letter in the mail, make it known that you are putting in thought to that person.
Sexy Night Vibes
Let’s get straight to it. Tonight we want to go all in, balls deep baby (literally.) We are talking candles, and I mean the ones that melt into a sensual massage oil. Get the lingerie, or birthday suit, and flaunt everything your mother made you tonight. Charge up your vibes beforehand so they don’t die out on you mid orgasm, we hate that.
Lay out the rose petals, the dimmed lights, and the music of your choice to get you in the mood. I recommend customizing a playlist so that you know every song is going to hit.
A sensual massage blind folded can lead to a great overall sex night. Remember that foreplay is not just the stimulation you give to each other, but it is also the build up that leads to all the fun parts. Allow this foreplay to start in the morning. Since it is a simple Tuesday maybe your partner is at work, send them a sexy photo to remind them for what’s to cum later ;)
The way you chose to spend today is entirely up to the both of you. Put your whole heart into your love, remind each other how much you are worth. Worship each other, and like I always say… get that O <3
