Having the Threesome Talk
The thought of having a threesome can be very compelling, a sexy love triangle if you will.
If you’ve never partaken in a little threesome action, this one’s for you.
Where to start, How to start it, and WHO to have a threesome with.
Now if you’re a single pringle, you have free range. More than likely there is a friend of yours out there that is also thinking the same thing. Maybe you haven’t expressed your thoughts about threesomes, but you know if the opportunity was presented to you, you would go for it.
You know what they say, if you want something go and chase after it.
You may have a couple in your circle that is even looking for a third partner. Yes, I know plenty of couples that have come to me and spoke out about how they wanted to take their sex life a step up! I’m so excited for them. The biggest question is always, who is it going to be with?
Depending on your preference, there’s a few different ways to go here.
You can most certainly hop on a dating app and filter out those couples that are fishing for the same thing you are. Most of these times, they are looking for someone who can come in brand new, and on the same page. It’s great to grab a coffee or a drink prior to taking action, just to feel each other out and talk about some boundaries and take aways. Having that talk before hand is going to be KEY when making this comfortable for everyone.
*Anonymous story time*
I had an interesting dynamic come up when talking to a friend about having a threesome. After years of being together with their partner, they decided it was time to try something new. In this case, it was a threesome! They weren’t too sure on who to feel comfortable with, considering they were in a committed relationship themselves. It’s hard to allow someone else in when you are an exclusive and intimate couple. However, the lucky partner they felt comfortable on just so happened to be an ex-fling. No serious feelings, but enough feelings at the time. Let’s just say to cut the story short, the threesome didn’t go as planned. Feelings submerged, and it had to be cut short.
What you shouldn’t do?
Call up an ex partner and ask them to join you. You don’t want to include past feelings into your new sexual fun, and with that, I’d take that thought off the roster. Unless of course you and your partner are looking for something else that you both agreed to. There is no set plans here!
Keep in mind, everyone partaking in this is also looking for the same outcome, pleasure, duh! Make sure you are on the same page, and don’t leave anyone out. No one leaves baby in the corner <3
So make sure you are ready to give your part, be ready to try new things, this is a new experience for us and we need to keep it comfy. it’s officially 2023, we are sharing intimacy with others and finally going to give the BEST O’s to everyone. Oh yes, no one gets left out here ;)
