5 Signs of Sex Deprived
We all tend to reach a certain point in our sexual relationships where the intimacy starts to fall off, the spark dims down, and the water works begin to dry.
Us humans get tired! We work and work until the grinds start to slow down. Sometimes we just can’t put the work down, and it starts to effect your mental…
If you are reading this and feel you or you know someone who is showing signs such as the ones we’ll go over… maybe you just need a lil orgasm in your life.
You are super irritable
It’s come to my attention that my partner seems a little more on edge lately. It’s not big argument, but they are picking on a lot of the things I have been saying. They don’t seem too thrilled about going shopping like I ask, or to spend time on the couch together (for the third night in a row.) I haven’t done anything wrong, what’s going on?
What is most likely happening in this situation is a little bit of resentment and agitation. Not purposely, but ask yourself this, “when was the last time we were intimate together?” If this answer is more than a week, maybe consider a couch sesh to turn into a bedroom sesh. A fresh orgasm will most likely brighten up the mood moving forward. Don’t take it personal, it’s just human nature!
2. Shortage in communication
The conversations have been dry. We haven’t even flirted in over a month! no compliments, just back and forth simple dialogue. What happened to the spark?
I recommend you try this. Send a flirty and spicy text out of the blue. It may spark them to become a lil bit more intrigued than the text stating what you ate for lunch. Get each other excited! It could be as simple as, “I have a surprise for you later ;)”
3. You have killer headaches
This is one that may or may not get the best of you. It is a fact that orgasms can sometimes help those nasty headaches or migraines. It doesn’t hurt to try! The hormones and serotonin that gets released during orgasms help send signals to the more “painful” or “pressured” areas. Don’t believe me? Try yourself! disclaimer every body is different! What might work for me or you may not work for them, or me! You never know if you don’t test out the theories…
4. More sleep, less intimacy
You may be finding yourself going up to bed extra early. You may even fall asleep before saying goodnight to your partner. You may be assuming that the sexy time is just not going to happen, just how it hasn’t the past 6 nights. You have been counting how long it’s been since sex. You can’t seem to let go of the fact that it’s been 6 whole days! So, before you know it, you are already sleeping. You are waking up and feeling extra exhausted.
Morning sex is a game changer. Try this instead. Instead of having your intimate time before bed, try when you wake up instead. This may or may not be the secret life hack to having more productive mornings, and better afternoons. You already had that big release in the morning. Now start your day!
5. You are focusing more in on hobbies
You realize that your partner is super focused on the video games a little more than usual. You may notice they have been reading more, spending time alone, or doing the things they love to do… obsessively. This may be a clear sign that you need to put the devices and hobbies down for a minute and spend real time together. I’m talking skin to skin contact, laughter, kisses, hugs, cuddles, all the above. Take the time to spend that intimate time together. Even if it is 10 minutes out of an hour. I can assure you dedicating more alone time to each other will even bring on more flirtiness, more openness, and more room for orgasms ;)
Listen to your body! Listen to your partners body! Allow your emotions to feel, and also release. Communicate when you are horny, communicate when you are not. The moral of the story is this and only this, everybody deserves an orgasm!
